I'd imagine any start of a relationship is a bit uncomfortable. [It's said in more of a questioning tone. He really doesn't know, this is far out of his element but he's going to try for Eponine.] How do you know that a slow-burn wont make it even better when the time comes?

Fuck them then. [He frowns.] Anyone who is going to hate you because they can't drink should take a look at their priorities in life. There's more to life then alcohol.