How do I know that someone is actually interested in me and it's not just my amokinesis? It doesn't mean I give up.

[She leans against him.]

Your charmspeak's like a hammer. It means that you can either bash someone's head in with it...or build a house. Turn it into something that does good in the world. If you want people to start taking you seriously, start with refusing to be ashamed of your power and show that you can use it wisely.